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Without saying too much, I want to know, do you ever feel embarrassed crying in front of someone you're romantically involved with? Because I was talking to my partner and knock on wood, everything's great between us, he's a wonderful man and I don't know where, I just started crying. And I immediately started apologizing and he was just super sweet and I just felt embarrassed and awkward. Please tell me I'm not the only one.
I never feel embarrassed because I think I don't cry for no reason, right? So it would be something that I'm super distraught about and I just would feel a lot better to let that release out
I really liked the way that you used the word release because that's how I felt. It was like really like emotional for me. I don't know. We were just talking about something and out of nowhere, like I said, I just started sobbing and I was apologizing and he's like, why? He's like, you're fine. Like I totally understand. And I was like, oh, yeah, knock on wood. I have a luckiest guy. he's the sweetest man.
You guys are both very lucky to have each other and it sounds like he's such a a genuine like sweet guy to understand it and it sounds like he just wants to know why.
You're very sweet. Oh my goodness. That actually made my night. So thank you so much. I'm actually going to tell my partner you said that. Uh yeah, he's a great guy and knock on wood. He and I are in a healthy and happy relationship, but I've gone through so much in my past that has led to this point like with other people, I mean, but like with him, everything's felt so natural. Everything's things felt so right and he's shown me that dreams can come true. So yeah, I guess I really I am lucky.
You know the fact that people actually regret hooking up with people it's crazy because we have no self-respect and our stands are so low like have high standards and quality over quantity come on
Yeah, I agree that people need to have high standards. When I was referring to myself crying and being embarrassed about myself crying, like he did not make me cry. Like my partner did not make me cry. He was incredibly supportive and he's the reason why I have high standards is because if I didn't, I don't think I would have ever met him to be honest. Like I'm very lucky and knock on wood. It's great between me and him and for the first time in my life I actually had someone that was supportive in my emotions, which was very rare for me to see.
No but if they make me feel embarrassed I'm gonna tell them we're done because that's not OK to make someone feel embarrassed just because you're crying I will probably open someone in the face if like someone was like why are you crying toughen up like shut up like I'm sorry shut the heck up let me cry in my moment and that's it like that's it
Yeah, no, I definitely would agree. Like, I was just crying because I was just in my feelings about something so dumb, and he did not make me cry. I want to make that really clear. He did not make me cry. He was being very supportive, and he's a wonderful guy, and he was just telling me it's okay to cry. I can express my feelings, and I just felt embarrassed. I was like, what? Like, I'm supposed to be happy all the time, and he's like, no, it's okay. Like, he totally understood. So, you know, I got lucky.
I don't know if I've ever felt that way before, but with my partner now, I definitely don't feel bad. It's crying in front of her. I'm not in the slightest. She like, I think she, you know, I think she feels like it's okay to be vulnerable. I know she feels that way. You know, she says that old time, that that's one of the things that she likes about me is that I can be vulnerable. and she tells her son the same thing, that he can be vulnerable, he should be.
I am from what I can remember like the first time I cried for them I don't think I did but I'm also like I cry like everything you like from like super like you're stressed or like sad movies like I'm very quick to describe even if I'm like not like super upset so I think for me it's just kind of like something I'm used to