So I was talking to somebody tonight about myself being a bit of a germaphobe. I fully admit that I'm a neat freak. I like things to be very clean and with you know the way dating is I know that people have their differences which is why I want to ask you could you be with someone who has a different level of cleanliness because I can handle a mess or two okay but if they're just straight up being messy, I don't think things can work out because knock on wood, I'm not trying to, you know, start fights or anything but I have heard that being a leading factor in couples in terms of like who's gonna clean what, like almost like a chore chart and I'm not really looking forward to that. I rather just us taking care of things collectively and maintaining a clean space if that makes any sense. But yeah, we'd love to hear your take.

This is such a valid question and I think it's very important actually to be somewhat aligned on this issue or topic because Otherwise it probably would end up being a lot of fights surrounding it because I feel like If one of the persons in a relationship is a lot more clean than the other person Then that person is going to take on most of the cleaning and it's going to end up being annoyed that the other person doesn't and if you can solve that in a good way like talk about it.

Well, let me different level sure slob. No No. Super clean? Yeah. Slab? No, I don't think I could be with someone slug. It's a reflection of how well you take care of yourself.

No, not necessarily. No. It's not a preference and it's not something that I would want to do. Not at all.

No I really couldn't deal with someone like that

I actually have some drama for tight tendencies but I won't say I'm in drama for like completely so my answer is yes cause I understand

So this is something that my partner or being with my partner has taught me is that there's a difference between cleanliness and tidiness. So for me, I am a very clean freak person. I don't like dust, dirt, that type of thing. But for him, he's a very tidy person, so he likes everything to visually look nice and doesn't really matter about the other things. So yeah, there is definitely a difference, but it works I guess on level.