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Alright, could you forgive a friend for betraying you especially in like the dating love life scene like for example they set you up on a blind date and the other guy was phenomenal, but the guy you got was like, uh Not the greatest or you know you find out that they've been flirty with your crush or that they were hanging out with a guy behind your back Whatever it may be could you forgive that person because for me, yeah, I could because because holding onto a grudge is like drinking the evil potion yourself. But I'm not gonna forget, like, if you disrespect me once, shame on you, but if you disrespect me twice, shame on me. You know, like, I'm not gonna look like a fool and I'm gonna move forward and like distance myself because it just goes to show me that this friendship wasn't meant to last. But we'd love to hear where you're coming from on this.
I've never been in this situation with a friend that was tangled in another love thing but if it was me I don't know I think it definitely would change my friendship or alter it pretty significantly for sure but you know if it depends if he and I were not boyfriend and girlfriend or official that's a completely different story.
I really don't wish it upon you because I actually did go through a friendship break-up or two and it hurts. Like, it sucks so bad because you really would hope that they would be in your life forever and then you come to find out that, you know, things don't really align anymore. And I've also drifted away from friends and it kind of sucked because I hoped that they would stick around, but you know, that's life.
Oh yes though, I do agree with the cheating part. Like if my best friend cheated with my boyfriend, like I'm not gonna word that like doesn't happen. I would be so frustrated beyond belief. Kind of like like girl code like hello
I don't think I would forgive them but she if we talked about the levels of betrayal like I wanna be talking my son will like you kissed my best friend or you kiss my boyfriend or because sometimes betrayal is very very simple but I think that if somebody can even think about betraying a friend that's not a person I should be with
Yeah, you know, you're exactly right because real friends don't betray you like that. Like, I can't even begin to fathom, like, it's a lot, you know, it's a lot to think about and I really don't wish it upon anyone.
I don't know what you mean by forgive, but I do know this. You have one chance. The first time I see that you are degenerate, I'm gone. I don't need to learn that lesson six times. I am scrupulous. I am judicious about who I let into my inner circle. Do not keep the company of snakes lest you become one.
I love that you protect your energy and you're very selective because the older I'm getting the more I am like that because when I was younger I was like oh the more the merrier with friends and You know like I said as I've gotten older I really like narrowed down my circle to someone who who is the real deal. So I totally see where you're coming from.
Yeah, I see where you're coming from. It really does depend on the level betrayal, but I just feel like we're never gonna be the same regardless, you know?
No because if they did that and I forgave them oh they gonna do it again they gonna do it again frequently I'm not good with you and friends I don't know why but yeah I'm not I'm not gonna I'm not gonna forgive you
I agree, that's why I was saying to someone else on here that I feel like things would never be the same. Like, I would have major trust issues and I really, I don't know, like, I don't want that stress, you know? I don't wish anything like this on pawn my worst enemy anyways.