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Hi guys, I hope you're doing well and life is going in your favor. So I just wanted to check in and ask this question, which is, what's something you should ask the person you're with to get to know them better? I always like to be a little bit more lighthearted and ask if they know any good jokes or funny stories, because laughter is the best medicine and I learned through humor, you can really get to know someone and what, you know, they find entertaining. And it's interesting too. So definitely going to go with that, but we'd love to know what you think or say.
I don't think that asking a bunch of canned questions and subsequently getting a bunch of canned answers is a valid way to get to know somebody in the first place because you're really only engaging the conscious mind. And don't get me wrong, that does count for something, but if you want to get to know somebody, you're going to have to engage the subconscious mind. The conscious mind is about 5% of the mind. The subconscious mind is about 95%. So if you want to get to know them, it's not going to come through asking questions.
Now, asking questions is a good way to learn factual information about them, and it is a good way to learn about their perception of self, which is important, but that's not the same thing as learning about them, which is on a deeper level, and they're not really going to have all of these questions, I mean answers. It's not a good way to get to know them.
You know the way you phrase this especially the subconscious mind is something I haven't really thought of in such a long time in terms of dating I'm way past the first stage with my partner But you know what, next time I know someone going on the first date, I'm gonna bring this up to them. I really appreciate you sharing.
Oh yeah, mm-hmm. The deeper level questions. You know, I have friends who have told me in the past like I'm afraid to ask too much or about this or that because I don't want to scare them off and I've told people Hey, if you're asking those type of questions and they're scared off. They're obviously not meant for you You brought up a really good point here. Yeah, I I really like taken a lot of what you're saying And I hope a lot of other people are too.
I like to know their past time like what are their hobbies? What do they like to learn on a daily basis? What are their interests and what do they find funny for sure?
Ooh, I've never heard of the question. What would you like to learn on a daily basis? That's actually a wonderful one I'm way past the first date date. But I have friends that are in the dating scene again, so I think I'm gonna pass that question to them.
This is super off-topic but if you if you want to know if a girl likes you ask him if you should like get a buzz cut and if they go berserk like no you should not do that I'm so like you bye