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Mistakes make us human and I always tell people it's very important to learn the lessons that come across you in your lifetime. And definitely relationship mistakes are high up there. I feel like no one's perfect right, but like we all need to acknowledge what we can change and do better for ourselves and those around us. So I want to know what's a relationship mistake you've made. I have made the mistake in the past with someone involved in my life. At the time I would let him walk all over me, control me in terms of what I could say, do where you get the idea. And just, it was not the healthiest thing ever. It was really toxic and I realized it was never love. It was a power struggle. That's really what it came down to. I'm so glad I, you know, realized I deserved better and walked out. But I want to know what's a relationship mistake you've made and how did you learn from it?
I've realized that sometimes people wear their brain on their sleeve, like when they're joking and stuff, they aren't, because like, one person made some really bad jokes, turned out to be true, and it was like so hard for me but now I know like people wear their heart.
What you just said made so much sense to me. It's so relatable actually because I have dealt with a very similar situation where someone I was involved with wore their heart on their sleeve and was just being really cold and rude and I was trying my best to be nice.
And following up with that in my situation, I was like overdoing it. And I end up letting that person walk all over me and you know, make jokes and do all these things. and yeah, never again. I'm never letting that happen again, and I hope you're okay now.
In one of my longest and most serious relationships, that was for six years, I let the guy almost bully me into thinking my opinion was not important or not feel beautiful enough and and just feel small and never again.
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry that even happened to you. Nobody deserves that. I just want to give you a hug. And I actually can relate to what you said because that is actually what happened to me in the past with somebody who's no longer in my life.
And just like what you said, this individual that I'm referring to did the same to me. And it's so crazy how to some people we can relate on that trauma. Again, really sorry that happened and I hope you're okay now.
This is a great question I would love to get this off my shoulders when me and my ex boyfriend were broken up for a while I went on a day with somebody and while he had asked me when we got back together if I did do it
He had asked me if I had did anything while we were together and I had laid out first and I said nope and then later I came out so always be true always be honest a customer the reality will come up and it's not nice
Oh wow, you know what? I don't know you but I really appreciate you and what you just said in terms of vulnerability and And yeah, in that sort of ordeal, I get it, wanting to clear the error as soon as you can.
I think for me was I am someone that had mental health issues I love them to death but they weren't really like there if that makes sense it was a very difficult and handful
Oh wow, you know what? I really appreciate how you're contributing to this conversation by sharing something so vulnerable like that. And I actually can relate because I dealt with somebody in my past who had mental health issues and he did not want to get help, which was really hard to see.
Yeah it's it was very difficult for me we mutually both ended the relationship because we both we're going through a lot I'm still in contact with her so I'm still respecting her and make sure she's OK
I have a daily mistake I made is probably comparing my current boyfriend like my last boyfriend like comparing men to like you know my ass by phone or something
Oh my gosh, yes. I feel like people don't realize that comparing happens offline too. And I've done that in the past and I feel so bad doing that because I really try not to, but it's just a natural thing that comes up and I try to stop it.