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So in life, we all know that things change, people change, changes the only thing constant in life. But does that apply well in relationships? Because we have all heard the saying, a leopard never changes at spots, especially when we deal with Xs or people from our past making a return. But do you really think those type of people can change for the better? And, you know, we hear the saying if you wanted to, he would, right? Like if he's putting an effort that he really wants to know you better or, you know, be with you and, you know, make these changes. But for some other people, they're saying it's impossible for someone to change their character no matter how hard they try. You know, without getting too deep, I have dealt with a situation like this over and over and over again to the point where it tore me down and I couldn't believe it. So I walked out. So, in your case is it true or is it false?
Yeah I think people can change the maturity experience so that kind of stuff I am and you're either your grout you're constantly growing so you're either going together or you're growing apart that's it
Yeah, exactly what you mentioned about growth is like you either grow together or you grow apart, but either way you're still growing. So yeah, I really appreciate you sharing that.
Motivation is the perfect word to describe the situation. Definitely, you know, people say a leopard can't change its spots. I think it can't change its spots with a certain person. Definitely with somebody else for sure. just not, you know, the situation this happened with.
I think that people can change. They just may not change with you. So they could have been a certain way at one point in their lives when you were in it. And now they are a different person with another person in their lives. That's just...
Oh, absolutely. Like, that was definitely a situation between me and someone I thought was going to be in my life forever. We just grew on different pathways and we're both happy with the people we have now. So it worked out for the best.
I think it's true because I've changed for the better in a way. I'm going somewhere now with my life and like I think people can change. I've kind of seen it and through an X. I've seen it, so I believe it.
Oh, yeah, I too have definitely changed for the better. I will tell you, it was definitely a wake up call splitting up with somebody that was in my past and, you know, walking out and doing my own thing because peace is acceptance. me tell you.
Theoretically, yes. Practically, no. Not most of the time, because most people are not willing to change the mindset that creates the problem. Changing the mindset is hard work and it's painful. And most people are not willing to endure that pain or do the work, period.
So oftentimes what happens is a manifestation of a mindset is changed, particular behaviors are changed, but the mindset itself is left untouched and simply manifests as a different set of behaviors. So now you think they've changed because their behaviors have changed, but they haven't changed.
So let's say the cheater stops cheating. Great. But if they do not address the underlying lack of integrity that caused him to cheat in the first place, then it's simply going to manifest in some other way. A person has not changed just because of behavior has. A lot of people don't understand that.
I absolutely loved everything you said and I wish I could pin this like you can pin Instagram comments Oh, just such pure perfection. Thank you so much for explaining everything that I couldn't. Just thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
You are truly helping so many people hearing this. Trust me because you're inspiring so many just explaining this simple thing that so many people over complicated. So yeah, thank you.