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See, I'm the type that always needs more details before ever coming to a conclusion Let's say if this is your first time you were confiding in your girlfriend and you're like, yo, you know, I'm not feeling good I'm depressed as fuck, you know, and she blocks your ass off of one occurrence You know, then that's not a partner that's able to kick it with you for the long term you know because you can't really grow strong roots like that because at the cause of a slight storm your trees
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gonna get knocked the fuck down you feel? but let's say on the other hand if you have been in a perpetual cycle of having a victim mindset without any action to change your situation and how you're feeling, you gotta look at it from the other person's perspective that's draining you know? especially if you're not willing to change or go to therapy or something you know?
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Now when you're in it when you're feeling dark and not feeling anything at all you're depressed or whatever I'm not minimizing your feelings, but it's you got to come to a point within yourself and Really see like what do you want? What do you want out of this? How do you want to feel? What is the light at the end of the tunnel look like for you? You feel me because you could sit in that pit forever Because that's possible or
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You can do your damn best to do something about it, because that depression and that pit of darkness does not define the soul that you are, the things that you went through does not define who you are, it's how you decide to grow from it. That is what defines your character, not the actual experiences itself. Alright, so how do you choose to rise from it and what actions are you going to take? Maybe your girlfriend wanted a little bit more accountability from you. She wanted you to take more.
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Responsibility, you know, so I don't know all the details OP. I don't understand. I don't know the background I I don't know. Okay, but I threw some shit out there a lot of shit. Okay, I've known to do this sometimes whatever But sending you love and there's no fucking mountain that's high enough that you can't get through You know what? I mean ain't no valley low enough that you can't get through with you. You are strong as Motherfucker believe it bitch. Believe it
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No, more or less selfish when you intend to use harmful intent to have someone stay around you. Seek help. Depression is real.
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Well, this is the ill part when it comes to un-aliving one's self energy. You're either going to do it or you're not going to do it, you know what I'm saying? So if you make it known that you wish to do it, and somebody offers you help, and you choose not to take the help, but you choose to stay in the funk, then yeah, you know, you is the bad person with that shit, you know what I'm saying? Because you really supposed to be getting some help if you really want to live, you feel me? I mean, but if you don't, then it's a waste of alternative, right? But don't play with it.
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You weren't the bad guy, you know, and this is now you have to open your eyes that if she wasn't With you on the hard time. She's not gonna be with you on the good times and if she wants to be with you in the good times Lock her ass too You're not the bad guy at all I think she was the bad guy because she couldn't handle shit because she went based on feelings not facts
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Um, yeah, bro. Don't tell a girl that, like, they are of the devil. They are working with the devil. Ever since Adam and Eve, like, she been in cahoots with that *****, so it's just like, yeah. Don't expect women to have sympathy when you make a sympathetic plight for their understanding, because they're just gonna, like, kick you on the balls. They're gonna add insult to injury. Like, they're good at, like, kowtowing to other women, but when it comes to a man, it ain't the same, son.
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You're not a bad person because you feel like shit, and you're not a bad person because you want to kill yourself. I think your girlfriend is probably really immature. I don't know the full story. I'm guessing worst case scenario, maybe you didn't communicate it the best. But doing all that extra shit, blocking you and telling everybody all that shit, this person is just really emotionally immature. And honestly, half of me is willing to bet that they're also suicidal and depressed. They're just not willing to confront it. So you doing it openly is actually scary to them. Good luck.
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You weren't the bad guy. She was. Um... You shouldn't kill yourself for a girl that's treating you like that. There's many girls in this world. There's a lot of girls that will show you so much love that you will be greedy, you know? But try to live your life as positive as you can and be blessed.
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okay so your girlfriend broke up with you not because you were hella depressed it's because she could not function with the way that you were acting because you did not have that personality when you got with her now she's blocking you on social media because she's trying to create boundaries and keep the peace within her mind but did she make you seem like a bad guy to everybody did your depression not make you become an asshole and were you not expressing bad behavior
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We're all human being we all film we all have issues so it's not on you to really worry about her but if you're worried about how people feel about you it's very simple change your behavior you're depressed we're all depressed so what can we do to help our depression we seek therapy we seek medical help we try to do things to better ourselves so just like me and I need to do the same thing you need to pull yourself up by the bootstraps and you do the same thing as well sir don't even worry about
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She's not even your girlfriend, you see that's how you messed up. My ex said I was hella depressed and said I wanted to end my life. She blocked me and everyone, think I was a bad guy. Was I the bad guy? No, you're not the bad guy, but if you're seriously depressed and you seriously want to end your life, you need to re-evaluate some things, you need to have a really deep inner look on yourself. Nobody's the bad guy in this situation, you're the sad guy.
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