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I don't feel anything when someone lets me down because we're human. We are not super people, so I know I've let people down. And if they let me know, I apologize and try harder. Be a better person than I was yesterday.
In my lifetime, I just learned not to expect things from people. If they let you down once, then maybe you can set your boundaries. And if it happens continuously, you know, you just got to do what you got to do.
No expectations, no disappointment. So if you expect things and they don't go the way you expect them, it's gonna upset you. If you just don't have expectations, then you'll be alright.
All in one. Pop of the call sometimes. Easy to get going too. I've seen it so many times. I'm used to it. Maybe I'm immune to it. Nothing to get excited about.
Hey fam, hey, this is a dope question. I feel like it's a part of life. Everything's not going to be perfect. People aren't going to understand things from your perspective. It does hurt on both ends sometimes, or just the one. But I feel like it's a part of the journey.
It all depends on the nature of the relationship with the person who let me down. 9 times out of 10 is probably gonna get you walking papers but if you're somebody who I want to continue having a relationship with I have to let you.
When people let me down I have to recognize that that is my emotion and my reaction to their choice. They made a choice and that is for their life and it has nothing to really do with me and I need to let it go and recognize that that's their problem not mine.
In most of my day-to-day relationships, when people disappoint me, there is a good reason behind it. And I try to talk through them with it and figure out what's going on.