Do you feel that you're giving your kids all the things that you didn't get from your own parents? But now that you're a parent, you're also dropping the ball in other departments?

I don't have kids but I've seen my mom do this to my brother and I think she's dropping the ball in other places.

Dropping the ball is a really heavy thing to say. I don't think that we or I have dropped the ball, but I do feel like I didn't focus enough on certain things. But they still knew I loved them and that was what's important.

But the best thing is to love them, to try and to be a better person and to direct them better than what you learned before.

I think that if you have parents that were really extreme in one area that you tend to swing to the other side of the pendulum with your own children And I think it's hard to try to find the middle where it's healthy for everybody If your parents were extreme.

No, I don't think I've dropped the ball because how my parents raised me and the time at which my parents raised me is different than what the time is now. So it doesn't even equate the same, doesn't even equal out. Absolutely not.

And that is what was important. That is so important is to let them know that you love them and bottom line they can come to you for anything.

But for example, like when I was a kid, my mom didn't really, and I didn't even notice this until I became an adult, but my mom did not like nurture our talents.

To be honest, it's kind of like trying to be everywhere at one time. A parent can do one thing excellent and then 20 things okay and five things great, but then somewhere you're lacking. You can't be everything at once.

So like for instance my mother was super overprotective and never let me leave the house at all. So I wanted to let my child do whatever she wanted, but then my brain had to say no let's find some middle ground, some structure. Mommy! But not captivity.