What's going on, stereo? This your boy DJ Hemothy Butler, aka Mr. Butler to you. Hey, so your wife died and left you with two kids, and you find out through a DNA test that neither one of the kids are yours. What y'all gonna do in this situation? Would you keep the kids and raise them as your own? Or would you say, fuck them kids and call their grandma and tell her to come pick these kids up? Let me know. Peace.

Are we going to keep ignoring this, or are we going to act like mandatory DNA testing is not necessary? Mandatory DNA testing is necessary. I don't care if you're married. I don't care what the situation is. That way there ain't no question. Find out immediately. It's the only way to fix this shit. People's lives are being ruined out here. You know what I mean?

Shout out to all the ladies who responded to this post. I understand that you have no idea what this is like. The reason being is because every baby that you birth, you know is yours. And that's never the same for the man. So, you know, at this point, you're not going to coalesce to us. It's like, you know, when we coalesce to y'all about children because they came out of y'all. Same thing. Shout out to everybody for responding.

These children lost their mother. Imagine the grief that they're going through. This man then brings up this DNA, right? I'm wondering, did he do it before she passed away or after? Was he questioning the legitimacy of these children before or after? See, that's the fucked up part. And then he wants to extract himself out of their lives, I bet. Who knows, but if you raise these children, continue to raise them and be a man of integrity.

Yeah, so if it was me and my wife passed away, then I found out the kids wasn't mine. I would raise them like they're mine Because I know what hurt them more than what hurt me when they find out the truth. Facts 100

Yeah, I'm team fuck them kids, drop them off to their grandparents, to her, her parents, to her mama, whoever, yeah, nah, mm-mm, and I know some people are like, oh, that's wrong. Well, it may be, but it was also very wrong of her to betray him and lie to him and have him raising these children that he thought were his and they are not. So send them to their family and go about your business.

Wow. So, it depends on how long has he been raising the kids. Does he have a personal relationship with them now? You can't just erase that even though you're not the dad. Who is their dad? Drop them at their grandma, they lose both their parents. To the kids, because that's their dad. He raised them, so I wouldn't leave them behind.