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You haven't been together that long and one of you has trust issues but you love each other would you leave that person that has trust issues or would you be patient with them and would you come closer to
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In my opinion Trust is a fundamental part of love. There's no trust and I have to question the love Because where there's no trust there's control so What do you love if you can't trust?
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With me being a person that also has chest issues, I would have a lot of compassion and empathy for that person and I would stay around to, you know, be patient.
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But of course, then I also have to remember that there should be some sort of boundaries, you know? Like, if there are really major trust issues, I don't want anything that's gonna make my trust issues worse or vice versa. Like, we don't want to be mutually hurting each other.
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I'd be able to do it because I also have trust issues. So I'm fairly patient when it comes to working with somebody else and working through their stuff. Like we'd just be working together to get out of that phase in our life, I guess, and distrust each other.
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That's facts. Trust takes time and trust is earned. It's not a rite of passage. It's not an entitlement. You've got to earn it together and trust each other.
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If I don't trust me, then how can I trust my feelings? If I don't trust you, how can I trust yours? It's fundamental. I don't think you can have it without it.
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If you don't trust me, I'm under your scrutiny. The relationship stops being fair. If I don't trust me, then how could you ever trust me? Trust has to be fair.
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Well, I can tell you it will get better But he or she or they them will never ever Change let me tell you that it will get better They will be better at lying, but they will never change
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It's not gonna happen. It's like the main bone of them, you get me? Like when they hurt you and when you have trust issues, obviously something's off, you know? But love is weird, I know.
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But like if they're working on their like you know behavior and whatever and getting your trust back um, I'd say just watch sit back watch and And the rest is the rest will come
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No, I wouldn't. Because you can't depict a relationship off of other relationships that other persons been through. Of course they're going to have some baggage, but being in a relationship is always going to come with baggage and you've got to work on it.
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Exactly, you'd give it time to work on it because you love that person. And if you love someone, you give them a chance to work out their issues. And you wouldn't just leave and blame them for it.
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So this is subjective simply because it's a based on how much you can handle because let me tell you me being married you are constantly working on yourself throughout no matter how long you're with your person you're always constantly evolving.
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So it depends, like I said, how what you can handle. Are there trust issues affecting you so much so that you have lost your peace? You are losing love for this person? It is aggravating you? How bad is it?
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Because some people are patient, right? They can let- they're like, hey, I have no problem as you work through your issues, as long as you're respectful, right? And there are some people that just can't handle it, they can't handle that. So it just depends on you.
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Please keep in mind that no matter who you are with, they will always have personal issues to, you know, to work on and personality traits that they need to better. It is a constant improvement.
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Always remember, no matter how long you've been in any relationship, there should always be peace, there should always be respect, and there should always be a growth. If your relationship does not provide that, then it's time to go.
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If I see progress I would stay if it has become stagnant and they are Non-reflective anymore, then I would probably leave
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Hey it's your queer boy King Alcaraz your very gay godmother. I think it's worth the fight if you if you say you love them whatever that means to you after a while if it becomes worse I would definitely call it
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Well, I will be very patient if I really do love that person and give us some time to work things out between us on our trust issues. And even after that, things are not working between us, I will leave.
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