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How do you catch someone in the light how can you tell that someone is lying to you what is the best way to find out if someone is lying
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Oh, obscure a great question. I guess it depends what the lie is about whether you can catch them. I tend to have a feeling though. Does that make sense? I get a sense whether someone's being truthful or not. But great question.
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Exactly, you get that sense. It's in your gut. You can't quite explain it and you can't quite prove it. My thing is, how do you prove it?
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It's a tough one, I'm not sure you have to prove it. Do you know what can be really awkward though as well is when other people know this person and you say, I get a feeling about this person and they're like, well, I don't, they seem fine. My feelings are very rarely wrong.
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For me, it's kind of a little voice in the back of my head saying, no, that's a lie. That's a lie right in your face. And it's also a good feeling.
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My thing is that there's facts and then there's evidence and if you don't have the evidence you might not have the facts but at the same time they could be so good at manipulating that you can't prove it otherwise.
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You catch somebody in a lie when they don't know what they're talking about because they are not the authority on what they're talking about usually. They're not talking about themselves, they're talking about somebody else usually.
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Part two is if they're lying about themselves, then you can see right through that immediately if somebody is lying about themselves because it'll be self-evident, especially the more time you spend with them.
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Their body language says a lot about it, if it seems like they're avoiding you or if they're blaming things on you and lashing out.
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So for me, I'm good at reading people and sometimes I could just pick up on it. And then other times it's the way they sound. If you pick up on the way that they sound when they are lying, and it becomes a thing or their movement,
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A lot of the times I would basically allow someone to lie to me and I'll make them think that I'm believing the lie and I watch their movement and everything.
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So yeah, I could already know the truth or whatever and it's the energy they're giving, the vibe. I don't know, I guess it's just a gift I have. But anyway, what's done in the dark will always come to light, so yeah.
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Just trust your intuition.
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If you feel like there is something off about this person and it's too good to be true, most of the time you are right, you should go with your gut feeling.
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I gotta make this quick because it's coming so sharp. If their eyes are like shaky like and you can't see me now and if there's turmeric so much in the airline they're definitely blind.
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Usually they don't look me in the eyes. And they know if I find out that I go rage out. But really, I really do.
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