Honestly, gay son, because like, reality neither, I wouldn't want either, but like, gay son, because gay son, you can have the perfect life, but that guy just end up gay, oh well boohoo happens, right? A gay daughter, nah, thought daughter, that shit was because of you, you definitely fucked up as a parent, something, you did something, you didn't show up to a dance recital, you didn't say I love you one night to her when tucking her in, boom, now she's getting trains around her at like the football party, now you fucked.