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Single or taken, I definitely want to hear your opinion on this, but what is the quickest way to win you over during a date? Because for me, instantly flowers. Like if a guy gets me flowers, oh my goodness. It's definitely gonna put me in a much better mood. Also, a romantic picnic, painting session, a walk around the city. Just something really intimate that you can do with that person. So yeah, that's my answer, but let me know what yours is.
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Honestly, this is a I Guarantee every guy's answer if you're not on your fucking phone the entire time like I've been on dates with girls and it's like fucking They're more interested of their snapchat than they are like the actual date and that shit hurts So I guess anybody not anybody but like if she's willing to I Guess spend quality time I I don't know how to put it, but guys will understand.
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Oh if you really think about it it's not because they might be more interested in their Snapchat it's also could be social anxiety I could be that nervous so maybe if you communicate and be like hey why don't we just for dinner phones focus on you and me but if you're not man enough to do that then that's gonna Do you know
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I really appreciate you bringing up this perspective because I have heard this from other people as well, guy or girl, that their date was on their phone the entire time and they found that a hit to their self-confidence and a bunch of other things that, you know, it's disrespectful as well, you know what I mean? But I do know that some people have social anxiety, but yeah, to be on their phone the whole time, oh, that's so awkward.
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I just responded to the guy that you responded to so I'm going to address you as well because I really appreciate you sharing your two cents on this situation because I have definitely been on my phone and I had social anxiety waiting for a date to happen but I felt like when the date did happen I didn't need my phone as much but I'm not going to dismiss other people feeling nervous because you're right social anxiety is a real thing so I really appreciate you commenting it means a lot.
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This is true. I work at AmeriCorps, which is like a debt relief company, so I'm on the phone with people all day, every day, and 90% of them have mental breakdowns because of social anxiety. And sometimes I don't want to do it because of social anxiety. I understand that it's a very real thing, but like, what I'm trying to get at is we could be having dinner or something like that, mid-conversation, and then she'll be on her phone for like 20 minutes.
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I'm not gonna lie to you, and tell you that I also haven't done the same thing. Not on a date, but like, at a party. I'll be on my phone 90% of the time, because I don't particularly like parties, but I get invited to them, and I'm too nice to say no. That's not the point. Um, I think I'm gonna have to make a second message for this.
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Okay, so this is the third time of me responding because Stereo is stupid. I tried to click on your name, it's not working. But you said that it would take a hit on someone's self-confidence. Not so much me, because my two main goals in a date are to try to get to know this person, see if I want to continue pursuing them, and making sure that they're having as fun of a time as I am. So seeing them on their phone kind of makes me feel like I'm not doing something right.
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Also, I would like to thank you for allowing this civil conversation. I feared that this would go south very quickly, it in fact did not, so I appreciate that. Thank you.
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Oh wow, thank you so much for putting in all that time and energy into not only answering me back, but someone else here on the thread because there are definitely going to be people listening in, and what you said is incredibly important. And also, you are very welcome that this is a civil conversation space, because that's my intention and even though my page is called Girl Talk, there are a lot of guys who do contribute to these conversations. So I really appreciate your perspective, and I hope you have a great rest of your week.
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You know what? I genuinely appreciate that. Thank you.
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For me, it's when my date is very generous, compliments me, has a great personality and makes me laugh. And when my date is a genuine, I like guys who open up the car door for me and it's very kind and sweet and friendly towards me and compliments me. So that's what wins me over when I go on.
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We're not going on a date, so yeah, that's what compliments me. And also, when my date or my lover or significant other brings me flowers, compliments me, and you know, makes me laugh and has a great personality. That's where it wins me over on a day like this. So yeah.
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To be honest, probably like, you smell good, you have the best, you kinda dress well, I don't really care about your dress at all. Um, that's probably it. Like, there's nothing really much you can, I can say you, because I don't know.
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They have to call me princess and they have to be freaky
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It's someone that shows they pay attention to the details. So they either gift me something or take me somewhere that I mentioned that I love. It's an interest of mine. And you know, they just want to tap and tune in and learn more about me or see me in an area that really lights me up. Like that makes my heart melt. I'm cheese and already my heart's fluttering.
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Quickest way to win me over during a date. Huh. Just say you like Dungeons and Dragons and I'll take you. A
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Just give me compliments I don't receive them that much but yeah compliments
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