As for the debts, we tend to think about debt only in terms of poor people debts, but what about wealthy people debt? Like, what if you have a real estate mogul who can afford to purchase an $800,000 rental property outright, but instead puts $50,000 down and through his connections gets an incredibly low interest rate and gets his renters to pay off the rest? What's wrong with that? Hell yes, I would marry a man who is capable of incurring wealthy people debt.