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Breze Kimble-Moore

Is your partner obligated to love your flaws and insecurities? #dating #relationships

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Melanin Seduction • 351d

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Breze Kimble-Moore• 361d

Okay so I know that I have flaws and insecurities that I'm just like and I'm very open about them with my husband and as much as I'm like oh my god I don't like it I don't like it he's like I love it I love it I love it but my whole thing is is that do you guys ever like even when they're like oh I still love everything about you. Do you ever be thinking that they just like saying that because like they're obligated to say that or is it just me? Because like I believe my husband but at the same time I'm like bro you're so obligated to say that. Like you're so obligated to say that. But um yeah let me know because I just be thinking like hmm yeah yeah yeah you're too far deep into this to change your mind now sir okay um but yeah let me know

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B Mac• 357d

Flaws I say yes but insecurities I think that there's something that you should've word through because it's all about better now I see it you know and it's like we don't want to just but I will I'm insecure about this and that's all it is now you wanna work through those things you don't want to claim them so yes I know at the same time

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Theguy• 354d

All right take 3/3 times a charm when I love somebody loves me very deeply and follow somebody I'll tell them that I love your mess I love your flowers I love your mess because if I tell you I love you I love you I don't just love parts of your approach I like Hello all of you take taking about Apple and curtain off the bad parts you can need to get parts

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Breze Kimble-Moore• 354d

So this is my second recording. So yeah, I felt you when you said up third time's a charm. But no, yeah, I agree with you. I feel like when you love someone, you know, yes, you obviously have an option to be like, I don't want to accept their flaws or whatever, right? But when you truly love someone, I feel like you don't really see that. You are able to work through it. So yeah.

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Yasmin Ali• 361d

I feel like this question should have more contact imagine someone's flaw is that they have narcissistic traits then they're not obligated to stand by that and ultimately and if it's something like I don't know where it is something very innocent or something that's not a dealbreaker then yeah of course like stick by then

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Breze Kimble-Moore• 360d

So I get what you're saying with you know if someone was had narcissistic narcissistic traits that could absolutely be a flaw, but I think the whole point was It's left open because people are subjective to their flaws It doesn't just boil down to one specific flaw And yeah, if the person finds it to be a deal-breaker or you know, they notice those flaws or they don't like that kind of flaw, then yeah, they can leave or stick by them.

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Consciousness• 353d

No, your partner is not obligated to do nothing. At the end of the day your partner does it because he loves you. As soon as that disappears, you're gone. And so was everything else that you loved.

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Melanin Seduction• 351d

I feel like they're obligated to endure them, not necessarily love them or even like them. But if they love me, then they'll be accepting of my flaws and be able to move accordingly and then we will develop, you know, an understanding on how to handle all of it. because it'll be vice versa.