Are you the default parent are you the parent that you know your kids come to no matter what are you the parent that does all the grocery shopping no matter if you work or not do all the housework no matter if you working out make sure you have all the meals cooked at the lunch is packed are you the default parent I'm 100% for the fall. And it's not called my husbands hi Emma said her mom so naturally like the cooking to go shopping and stuff definitely like it's OK that I am I do so I don't get bored he doesn't ever make me do it but like when it comes to the kids like they want to come to me they want only me they want me to put them to bed And I just wasn't sure if anybody else is in the same boat let me know

I think the default parent typically is the mom, but when it comes to financial situations, the default parent is the dad. And it's really weird. It shouldn't have to be that way. I think roles now these days anyway should certainly be divided amongst the people who who are in the home to make everything work efficiently.

I am definitely the default parent but my husband does do a lot the kids or let him put them to bed just fine and he does dishes more than I do actually but most everything else I handle around the house and definitely like the schedule and packing lunches and bags and things like that would definitely be on me and majority of you know the cleaning and things like that

Yes I am I will be doing dishes or cooking dinner or some thing like that and my kids come to me 100% of the time even if it's just for something simple that dad can totally help out with they don't ask him they always come to me first

Yep, I am the default parent. He does help us with some things, but for the most part, I do most of it.