Nobody talks about the period of loneliness you go through when you figure out your self-worth, when you figure out the things you want and you know you finally get an idea of your ideal partner or the direction you're going in, i.e. purpose. Things get a bit quiet, you just don't accept anything and anyone to come into that space and that can get a bit lonely. I'll be very honest this is a period where I'm trying to navigate through myself but I would love to know if anyone is going through this or has gone through this it would be amazing to just discuss.

I love the quiet. I've been single for 10 years and very comfortable in my being and very happy. You're not, I'm not lonely. I'm by myself, but I'm never alone.

You know just cause you don't have a party doesn't mean you're lonely you create loneliness by being unhappy in your own situation

I love that you're bringing up this topic. I think it's a very valid one. And I sort of very much felt the same when I was like single and I was going through like working on myself. And just realizing that there's so many people that just don't align with that. And I think it was tough to some extent for a while, but then I realized that most of my relationships started to add up to those standards that I've set for myself. myself.