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Arielle Van-Mballa

What is your personal time limit for a ring before you end a relationship? 🫠 #dating

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Telia Taylor • 364d

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Tia k • 371d

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Alisha • 362d

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Storming the Weather • 361d

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Vivaciousone • 361d

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Arielle Van-Mballa• 371d

Hey stereo it's Ariel and I have a question for you what is your personal time limit for a ring for you in a relationship in my opinion is it's been two years to three years and we talk my new engagement is not going nowhere I'm clipping it what is your time limit

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Telia Taylor• 364d

Oh this is a great question I personally feel like at this day and age as I'm getting older you got three years max to figure it out and honestly should already be figured it out and figured it out figured out and discuss how long before the three-year deadline even arrives if we haven't even talked about it and we've been seriously exclusively in a committed relationship for three years and we haven't even talked about

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Telia Taylor• 364d

Or even bring it up at all in any way shape or form then baby we're not gonna get it we're not gonna be together honestly the first year and a half if I feel like it that's like we're gonna have to talk about it you know I mean cause it's like I'm not getting any younger so it's kind of like yeah that's this is a good question I ask this all the time but I would like to see what other people have to say as well

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Arielle Van-Mballa• 364d

Right like I feel bad if it's like a year to have two years tops honestly because that's a while so we've been together for a minute do you know my age and Alex we're having the same conversations over and over again what do you want to do like some people rather just waste your time instead of just being upfront about how they feel

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Tia k• 371d

I don't know I haven't gotten that far but I feel like if I was dating somebody I would say maybe three or four years before I get a ring because like I got to know somebody for a long time and we got to like live with each other first so I feel like I would probably leave after three or four years because a guy should know

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Arielle Van-Mballa• 369d

Honestly as I get older three years is a long time to be with someone and not know what you what's your plans are in the future honestly my limit is like two years now that I think about it but three years is definitely good like time frame because if you starting at 27 and 30 you can start again some people be in relationships and they be in there for 10 years and they don't even know what to do because it's a whole new dating landscape

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Alisha• 362d

I agree with you. I would definitely say two years. That's definitely long enough to get to know someone, get an idea of their character, see if your future plans align and things like that. So yeah, two years would be the limit.

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Storming the Weather• 361d

So what's interesting about this question is that I've had the rings right but I haven't had the trust and the building of a relationship that you know would correlate to having a ring it's been more of like here's a ring it's possessions are for me I would want a ring from someone who wants to possess me at some level and wants me to be you know his but it would have to be after the trust has been established

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Vivaciousone• 361d

Ladies, you should not wait any longer than two years. The saying goes that a man knows whether or not he wants to spend the rest of your life and his life with you within three to six months and any later than that, it would be a year or two. Any longer than a year or two, he's not serious about you. You're a placeholder. He's having fun with you. He's not ready to long-term commit or settle down.

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Vivaciousone• 361d

At the end of the day, just like a woman knows whether or not she'll sleep with someone or if she's physically attracted to someone within five minutes of speaking to them based upon appearance, intellect, and other attributes and characteristics, a man knows whether or not you're the woman that he wants to spend his rest of his life with or that he wants to make his wife. knows that within three to six months or one to two years.

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Jonathan Bytd• 361d

Me personally speaking from a man standpoint of view, I would say that you are able to figure out if you want to be with this person within a year to two years at that time limit for the rest of your life. If nothing ever happens then it's time to cut it off, be friends and let them go and enjoy life. Maybe you guys will reconnect in the future but at that time it's just not then. Maybe later.