So earlier today in another comment section of mine, we were talking about certain pet peeves and she brought up the fact of unspoken dating rules, especially the one about calling. So I want to ask you guys, should you wait around for someone to call or text you after a date? I have always made the first move in some way shape or form and honestly I don't have the patience and I did wait a time or two and it ended up not working out for the best. So I felt like myself putting my step forward and seeing where things go. Like it saved me so much time and energy because if they didn't reciprocate that energy then I just would move on to the next. But I haven't been in in the dating world for a bit of time now. So I don't know, maybe things have changed. But yeah, let me know.

I don't think you should wait for anything. Move forward with your life and if things happen they happen if they don't they don't but to wait absolutely not.

I mean, you should never double text, you don't want to seem needy, but if you've been in a relationship with someone and they're not answering, Pester the hell out of them. That's who you are. If you want an answer, why are you waiting boundaries? Get what you want

No, I mean I think silence is an answer as well. If they're not, or they're taking a long time to contact you, then that's kind of like telling you something. But I am also like you. I don't like wasting time, so I would be the one to ask how things went and stuff as well if I didn't hear back in a suitable amount of time.

I think it really depends especially how the first day went but I mean if it's been a couple days I will just make the first move because if you're not gonna do that then how you gonna move forward in life

I did anything hey if you wanna talk to them to talk to let me know if you're busy they're busy if they're not they're not just like be patient but you know if you feel like it's gonna be in a rush or a hurry they're rushing things and like it's not meant for you

I think we will avoid this game players where it's kind of like they're waiting for you to text them and if you don't then they're going to be in there if someone is willing if someone likes you but they're willing to wait around for you to take them to Anna play some sort of game with you than evidently they are probably not the right type of person for you tomorrow I think if its reciprocal then you'll be very easy to iMessages either or doesn't really matter and we'll go from there

No I don't think so and I am never been one to do that I mean I've tried but I suck at it and I like well address it like out loud you know I'm directly like I know that you know the unspoken rule are like the dating rules are that I'm supposed to wait but I'm gonna start a person and I'm not gonna pretend to be somebody that I'm not you know in the beginning because then you're gonna find out that I am not that way so I say don't wait just do

So me personally after going on a date with someone and it went well and I you know enjoyed myself I might send a text afterwards saying you know I had fun I might make a little joke or something like that But that's it because if someone wants to talk to you they will talk to you so me reaching out just makes me feel desperate and ill.

Am I don't wait around for a date but I do feel like I would expect the guy to be like oh I hope you got home safe or you know like what are you gonna do now Bobby blow like some type of casual conversation just let let me know that he cares rather than just like not texting me for the rest of the night but I'm not gonna be sitting around waiting for it

I definitely think that you should do what you feel and not played by the rules that other people create like if you wanna text somebody or text them if you wanna call them call them if they feel like it's too much you should've waited that they're probably not a right match for you because you're the kind of person who wants to take initiative and maybe you might like if somebody also would take initiative in response and not play coy or play these little games as if they don't want to like talk you know what I mean sounds like you're on the right track