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This might like ruffle some feathers but do you think like informing another mom on child car seat safety like letting them know maybe the way that they have their kid in the car seat is unsafe? Something like that do you think it is mom shaming or just literally looking out for the safety of their kid? I personally think it's looking out for the safety of their kid and if somebody explained to me the way that I had my son strapped in the car seat was like not right and show me the right way how to fix it. I would not think they were mom shaming me and I would not take it like in a bad way whatsoever but I know this has been all over TikTok before so it just makes me wonder what your guys thoughts are.
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I don't think it's mom shaming for example like if a mom post a picture and it's just like you know there is a selfie and then you can see the kid in the back with the car seat and someone comment some thing I think it kind of depends how they type it and if they are meant to come off rude like I did that I think it just depends how they say it it could be mom shaming in the way they say it but if they're just saying like hey you know chess clip goes here this and that and we're like nice about it now
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Yeah I definitely agree with that I think the way that you look like him give them the information definitely depends on kind of like your tone of voice or the way you type it because it obviously it's possible for it to come off as rude but I think in general no other mom means to be rude about it they're just trying to like in for informates him you know what I mean
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it because maybe that mom really just doesn't know how to put her kid in a car seat properly. You know, maybe she doesn't realize that the baby is in there wrong. But there's a way to do it. If you're doing it and your root is going to come off as like mom shaming or whatever. But if you do it, if your delivery is good, then that mom will know that, hey, this person is just genuinely concerned about the safety of my child and they're just genuinely trying to help. So you have to be nice about it, just don't be rude about it.
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Yeah this is exactly my thought on it for sure I think anytime a mom is in I'll just letting another mom know some small thing that they can change with the strap or the buckle like anything like that I think they're just genuinely looking out for the safety of that child
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OK sounds like this might be an unpopular opinion but I'm gonna be totally honest with you the car seat comments that happen on social media are over the top it's too much it's way too much here's an example just today I posted a video of my daughter was probably 15 seconds long we were on our way up to a girls day we had just hopped in the car keys weren't even in the ignition yet let alone the car moving down the street so my daughter sick she can buckle her self out and she knows how to properly she had just started
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She had just started getting herself buckled in this video only one of the three buckles she still in a five point even though she is six years old because yes car seat safety important well anyway she was just starting to get buckled only clipped one of the clips and it happened to be the chess club and Jen cut the bottom clips yet and it has clip was way far down but like I said she had just started getting buckled we weren't driving or anything and all kinds of comments about chess clips to low this and that car seat car seat
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It's honestly just way too much. I mean, like if she had been fully buckled, we had been driving down the road and she still wasn't buckled properly. Like okay, then okay, but it's just the people making these comments are just like Like just jump in all over every little thing and it's too much. I feel it is too much.
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I don't think it's shaming when it's solely to protect the kids it's about their safety and I've heard of so many people that have helped save kids or prevent ask for them getting really hurt from an accident because they pointed something out of have a car seat was wrong it's important
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