OK so I always I'm here like a lot of mom saying the only way that they can get their showers are if they just you know throw their toddler right in the shower with them I don't know if I'm the only one but that is just not an option for me I've tried it two times the first time was absolutely chaotic like it was just awful I literally started crying in the shower because I was so stressed out and then the second time was today and he just literally started screaming crying like I don't know if it scared him but I am definitely one of the moms that just has to wait until they're significant other gets home because it's just it it's Impossible

My toddler and I shower together probably a couple times a week. It's definitely a little chaotic. He's got all of his toys on a tiny ass shower. But for the most part, it's fine. It's definitely not my favorite way to shower and I can definitely catch a shower somewhere else in the day for sure. But sometimes if I'm trying to just multitask and cut down on like time frames of things, just easier for him and I to hop in together.

Yeah showering with the toddler can be chaotic and just crazy and it's a little bit too much sometimes like sometimes if I shower with my toddler he's OK and there's other times where he's all like he wants to bring anything and everything in the shower with us and I'm just like we can't can't do this

The same way, when my kids were toddlers, I was not able to take showers with them. I would just bathe them first and then wait for my husband to come home and then that way I can take my shower and uninterrupted, peace and quiet and I can just take my time. Other than that, like, shower time would be like so chaotic. So yeah, I would just always wait for my husband.