So me and my fiance are finally going on vacation at the end of this year. We're going to Cancun for a wedding and I love that for us. But two things can be true at the same time. My excitement for the vacation and my anxiety about leaving my baby for days on end. So I need y'all to lift me up. I need y'all to give me your greatest tips, tricks, advice or just comforting words to to just make me feel that I'm gonna be okay because right now I just don't feel it. I am attached to my baby. She is a breastfed baby. We, I've literally seen her every day of her life. So I'm just not okay. Help, help a mama out.

My advice would be if possible start out with like one overnight away or if you can send her to a grandparents maybe if you're comfortable with that. Just start out with something small before you're gone for like a week. My son is two and a half and the longest we've ever been away from him is two nights and we are actually going on a trip towards the end of this year and that will be our first time away from him. I think we're going away for like five nights in total'll be there one day.

So how many nights are you gonna be away for I just recently did four nights away from my nine month old daughter and it was bittersweet yes arm it was very much needed it was a nice like get away but at the same time I did miss her but yeah I guess if you're leaving your baby with someone that you trust you'll be OK and especially if like the communication is there where you're at

So I would say kind of like a tip that I kind of did was I used to have her as my background phone saver I know this sounds horrible but it was just too sad for me to see her like on my phone I didn't want to like see her and just like start crying every time I seen her picture so yeah I guess like I don't know if that's a tip because but yeah that's just some thing I did

Also it was my cousins bachelorette party so it was so tough because like I almost wasn't going to go but like she's getting married how do I not go my mom watch my daughter so my mom like convinced me to go oh my boyfriend watched my daughter for I think one or two of the nights but yeah it was my mom so thankfully I had someone I trusted

Yes, my mom has said the same things, cause she'll be staying with my parents and she's like, we gotta practice before the time comes. So I'm gonna go ahead and plan a few weekends for her to stay with my parents. So that'll help ease my tension and anxiety. Thanks, Mama.