I refuse to chase anyone like I'm just I'm not doing that and I don't like it when someone tries to chase me either because it just gives me the vibe that they are desperate. I don't really like the whole back and forth cat and mouse game I like to be intentional and I feel like the effort should be you know equal on both ends like you know once we figure out I like you, you like me. We don't need to play this game. and let's just, you know, use our time wisely.