okay so is asking someone on the first date if they want to have kids too fast or is that appropriate because I want to know for a friend she's been like talking to me about going out on this date with this guy and she's like like she's she always has a problem on being friends or being together with guys that don't want to have kids and obviously she wants to have kids so that's a deal breaker so is that a question that she should ask or should you wait till like the third date at minimum to see if the energy flows enough to even make it there.

Like If you're asking if they want to have kids with you, that's that's way too fast but in general I don't fucking know.

Honestly, I think like they might not answer truthfully, but it's a pretty good question just to ask like it's very important

You know, I feel like this is a really good question But I feel like if you on the date like you can't you do have to read the room for sure But I think it's good to know So, you know, right on out the bat rather than away and...

Hmm, okay, so I'm curious, what makes you think that they wouldn't answer truthfully? Or I guess like why would they not answer truthfully is the question.