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Hey guys Ariel and I had a question on whether y'all rather be alone trying to heal yourself trying to be in a better place or would y'all rather settle so least you have someone to be with because sometimes I feel like maybe people rely on settling just to have a person instead of just trying to find a person that fits them so what is yawls opinion on that
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Honestly, as hard as it feels sometimes, I'll rather be alone. And that's because I've taken so much time to work on myself. I've taken a lot of time to heal and just get myself into a place where I am proud of the woman that I am today.
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And because I've spent so much time and put in so much work in myself it's so hard for me to just give myself away to just anyone like I know my value I know my worth I see that in me Sia
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I 100% feel you. Sometimes you've done so much self-work and you have, because of that, you have so many standards. that settling just for any old person is not even in the cards for you. That's why I definitely agree with you.
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See you should be happy that should be your first and most important goal is to be happy in your own right Successful in your own right and then you know love will come because you'll find out you don't need anything from a partner so you won't ever be settling.
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I definitely agree with you 100% I think that people forget that no matter what in this life you enter this life alone you will leave this type alone and you need to be good with being alone
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I definitely settled before just to have somebody around but now I am loving being alone and I'm loving the healing process. It's not easy but it's worth it.
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I definitely will because I think the day when your partners out there who are you actually who are you as an individual and it's not easy but it's definitely worth checking out to figure out who you are first
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It depends on what stage of your life you are and not making any rushed decision.
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Yeah, I think that knowing where you are in life is very, very important because relationships are work. So, if you know that you can't put 100% into yourself, into this relationship, then why Are you even dating right now?
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Settling in a relationship, in my opinion, is going to be a disaster. I don't think it would ever work out. I think a person should love their self enough to not want to settle. And if they have some personal things, issues that they need to work on, They need to figure all of that out before they try to jump into a relationship.
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Right? Like anytime you set a relationship, you know that not only can you do better, but it is better outside. So it's just going to lead to more problems over time. If I know I need to work on issues, why can't I just work on them? Like, I don't need to be in a relationship to do that.
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I'd rather be alone than settle like come on when you're settling you're gonna be mad every day It's gonna be purposeless for being with this person. There was no point from the beginning. I I'd rather be single alone.
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I agree with you 100% it's really purposeless like you said to be in a relationship and you know that you want to be somewhere else it gives a definite gives codependent and interdependence when you are trying to settle for nothing like you can it's OK to be alone
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I rather be alone I mean I get that humans are naturally social creatures and we want to be around people like I like company you like company everybody likes company you know that's just how it is but I also feel like we need to learn how to be happy by ourselves because we can't always rely on other people for our happiness you know
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Yes, I think you're exactly right. I think humans are supposed to be sure you want to be around people. We love intimacy. But it's okay to be alone sometimes. It's okay to be in love with yourself for a little bit so you know you're writing for the right person.
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okay since honestly I just recently got out of a relationship so in my opinion I would rather be alone and try to focus on myself till somebody that will like really like, like me for me, but in the audience whether they're alone.
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I would rather be alone than to settle hands down because people may think oh if you're alone you need somebody but having the wrong somebody is way more depressing to think oh I'm giving them my effort and they can do nothing for me
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Being alone is OK I wish people are more OK with being alone then having to be in a relationship but I think that's just because of how we romanticize being in relationships and it's OK to be by yourself because I think that you know you're looking and waiting for the right person
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He was great. Like I enjoyed being single, but I just started getting back into the dating game. I've been out of it since like 2015, like no lie. But I would like a girlfriend personally, cause I just want to cuddle and have somebody to spend my time with. It gets kinda lonely, but I accept being alone and I've created a routine within myself, but I would like to have somebody, the right person at the right time.
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