Is it me or is it normal for a guy to pay on the first date? I mean, he's been to provide for us in the future, right? So surely you should set the term by paying, no?

Yo, I'm not even thinking about what's happening next in the future providing for a gal on that when I'm taking out for drinks the first time you know, should be lucky if I even call it a day and that. So, given of it as it's 2023, happily split the bill.

Me personally I wouldn't mind the guy offering to pay for the day and what not but if it's going well I'd also like to offer to help pegs I want to be known I do have my own money but also I just feel like it's the fair thing to do

If he comes up with a date idea then yes

If he's got a lot of money then yeah, absolutely.

It depends on who's making breakfast.

If I'm honest, I think that's so backwards, like you shouldn't expect a guy to pay for everything on the first date

I mean, I would offer to split the bill just to be nice, but I think if the guy asked you out on a date, then I think he should pay for it.

This is how it goes, if I invite a girl out, I'm gonna fucking pay because I invited her out so I'm paying for the date. If she invited me out, I'm gonna offer to pay regardless, but if she wants to pay, I'll let her pay because she invited me out.