Okay, so let me get this straight. You as a man have value in a relationship because of what you can provide, what you bring to the proverbial table, right? The metaphorical table, yeah? So who are you outside of a relationship? Who are you to say you get the choose amongst the millions of women out there who you want to be with because of this value of provision you have when you get into the relationship that's asked backwards? And I'd like for you to know that you're in cognitive decidence mode because you're thinking one thing but life is another way, right? thinking you have all this value when you get into the relationship so you get to choose where and which is the exact opposite. You only have value when you are providing or the provider of financial stability in a household. That's it. That's the only time you have value. Outside of that, no value. Zero, zilch. And because of this women get to pick they get to pick and choose who they want to be entertained by and who they want to pay their bills and to me It's crazy for men to talk as if They're the ones making decisions about their love life You're not you're literally not in control of your own love life. You're a peacock Flanting your feathers about the room, hoping some dame would pick you and allow you to pay her bills. to entertain her, basically.