I'm a teenager and my mom is kind of famous on Instagram and blogging. She had a mommy blog all when I was growing up and of course me and my sister were always involved. And it sucks because there's so much out there about us and it's what's going to come up when I'm looking for a job, when I'm dating, when anyone looks up my name. I found a website that will print custom jackets, print all over the front, back, and arms and I ordered some hoodies that say a bunch of phrases all over them. No photos, no videos. I do not consent to be photographed. No means no. Respect my privacy. No cameras. No profiting of my image. It sounds silly but it looks pretty sick actually. Got one for me and one for my 9 year old sister who's started to not always want photos. And I guess the idea is that my mom can't take good looking pictures, even candid ones with us in the hoodies without them having a pretty strong message that we don't want to be in the pictures. My mom was mad when they showed up and really mad when I'm wearing mine. Like she says she just wants pictures to remember my young years by. She won't post ones without asking. But I know that's a whole mess anyway. She always says that and then negotiates me into letting her post, like either by saying that's how she makes income, so I want money for something, to stop arguing about pictures. Or posting without asking me and then saying I thought it would be okay because your face wasn't visible or you're just from the background, etc. etc. I'm always like no you don't think. If you thought it all you'd remember what I said I want. No new pictures of me or mentions of me online. Remove all pictures that include me that you've ever posted and delete any writings that mention me. I am just so fed up and so upset that my mom is mad at me for wearing my new hoodie every day. She's mad it won't take it off for any event and thinks it's inappropriate to wear to certain things. I know it's a really weird looking thing but it feels like my only option. Am I the asshole for always wearing my new photos hoodie?