Okay, so this is part two for the unexpected things about motherhood. So throughout the years of being a mom, I learned to lean on myself and also I learned everything on my own too. Throughout this year alone, I have removed myself from so many different certain situations and I definitely don't let my kids around that either. I will not let my kids to be picked on and made out to be a competition. I cannot tell you how many times I have had another family member's kid hit a milestone before my kid and then my kid gets judged for it and they get looked at differently. And then you're going to turn around and call my kid stupid. Yeah, you don't do that to my kids. Mama Bear will come out. So like I said in part one, I will definitely give this advice to my kids when they become parents. Not everyone wants what is best for you. everyone is going to be by your side, they rather leave and judge you for every single move you make and be prepared to lose certain friends and certain family members because you it's just it's tough out there, especially when you have these kinds of people in your life that really do not care about you and your kids. Like for example, like those are your grandkids, your niece, your nephew, and you don't care about them? Like I don't see how someone can be okay with hating on an innocent child. Like I don't understand that but I definitely will tell my kids that advice because I don't want my kids to end up hurt and disappointed like I did because they don't deserve that.