Can someone please tell me why I always get taken advantage of And I give and give and give to people And I'm just so over Being the one to always give and give and give Pick a people pleaser and I finally have gotten to the point where I'm saying no because I'm just done playing with people's games Constantly giving to someone you know

I think you are trying too hard to change who you are to try to please others and give them more than they deserve. So you should find people who respect you, who respect your time and effort.

I think saying no is a good start, but with any family and friends, I think we all need to set good boundaries for people. And that would actually deter them from the idea of even thinking about taking advantage.

Hey love, it's me, Nikki Knight from Star Angels Readings. I just want to remind you that you are a beautiful person and a good soul. You have empathy like everybody else, but you pick it up a whole lot more, so you want to solve problems so quickly because you already feel them.

Solve your own first and know that you need to pay attention to the behaviors, not the words of the person. And I know it's very hard because I do the same thing. It's kind of like a lesson that we learn over time. Don't beat your-

for not doing it now. It takes some time to get the handle of because there's some people who can really disguise themselves and we have to look through all their bullshit. Trust your intuition, you got this.

Yeah, that's understandable. One moment I felt like that where I just kept helping people and I wasn't getting any help. But once I put my trust into Jesus and in God, all those things that I used to worry about, they're carrying it for me. Jesus is carrying the cross for me.

People will treat your kindness for weakness, you know I'm saying? And a lot of people will take that to their advantage and use you, you know I'm saying? You cannot be a doormat because a lot of people will step all over you. You have to learn from your mistakes.

I've been in your shoes a while ago, I know what that's like. I've dealt with that my whole life. And it's pretty simple. It's because you don't set boundaries for yourself. You value others more than you value yourself.