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So I was reading this article from New York Times and in it they were saying that more and more couples are not sleeping in the same bedroom. Like they're actually sleeping in a completely different room from one another because of sleeping habits such as snoring and moving around a lot or just because they have different schedules. And I want to know is it bad that you're not sleeping in the same bed because for me, as much as I respect their decisions to not be in the same room, for me, I can't do that. I love physical touch, it's my love language, and I feel much more comfortable having my partner next to me. But everyone is very different, so I'm curious to know your thoughts.
I'm gonna speak a hundred percent real with you. I'm looking at my woman right now in the whole another bedroom laying down No, that's it ain't cool. Ain't that much tiredness in the world? There's too much shit going on spinning every second like it's your last some jealous that she got this little small blanket There's only enough room for her now for both of us that little small blanket I know the one you got that only go to your ankles. That's bullshit.
So it actually used to be the norm that married couples would not sleep in the same bed, but in the same room. Sometimes even different rooms at that. My grandparents are one of those people and it actually keeps a relationship fairly healthy for whatever reason. There's no tugging of the sheets. There's no snoring issues. I mean maybe snoring issues are in the same room. There's no here? I'm big.
I ran out of time, but like for instance, people don't like to be touch-balled sleeping, you know, movement on the bed, things like that. I mean there's just a healthy amount of separation in a relationship and it used to be the norm even back in the 30s, 40s and 50s that people would not sleep in the same bed and I think that's pretty awesome. I'm like a don't-fuck-and-tatch-me-when-I-am- sleeping kind of person.
I don't think it is. I know first time before we got this new apartment, me and my dude had our own rooms and it worked out really really great. People were like, oh that's just a roommate. But it's like, oh no honey, I didn't have to pay anything. You know what I'm saying? I just like my own space. I have a very different aesthetic as he does as far as decorations go. My room looked like a teenage boy with anime posters everywhere and his was more so grown man vibes. So yeah.
OK I believe it's an archaic kind of even poverty kind of thing that people slept together just hear me out yeah wealthy people have their own rooms I want my own big luscious bed with my shit on the kind of Blankey's I want we have completely different schedules I am in bed now they don't come to bed for two more hours then we can book sexy time I'll have my own dressing room
And yeah like if like a partner snores or needs one of those like this showing them on TV with the sleep apnoea sadly we don't have that but you know what I mean like you know and also people got it wrong marriage is like long marriages of people lay next to each other and fight every day and all of that that's not romantic I don't want I want to enter the room in lingerie and like it be like a date
OK the two rooms would be a joined by beautiful pocket kind of French doors right and then you know you just go hello when you're in the mood or whatever but when you go to sleep you go to your bed and you spread eagle on that bad and you do your thing also you could read into the night or my parties to listen to music to fall asleep but I can't but now he could again perfect
It's actually super interesting that you bring this up because I listened to a podcast the other day with a scientist who his main research field is sleep and sleep has like such immense consequences to our health and he brought this up as well and kind of mentioned that this is getting more and more common because actually one of the biggest reasons for divorce is like sleep like lack of sleep.
Now I think that like although that's the case I do agree with you that I prefer to like sleep in the same bed and I think for me separate rooms would be too much as well but he also said something about like something called the Scandinavian method which is technically like two single beds but like pushed together you could have like different firmness and you have like separate duvets and stuff and in that way you're kind of sleeping together but like sleeping better usually.
And like for me, I moved houses not long ago and me and my partner sleep like a lot better in like this bed That's like two separate beds pushed together rather than like the bed I had which was just like one bed that we would sleep in So for us It has made like a big difference actually But yeah, no definitely separate rooms. I think would feel too weird for me unless it's gotten really far and been like a big problem