Yeah, I totally understand because somebody else is bringing that up and I was telling that person well if they're Threatening your physical or mental health. Yeah, you got to run like you don't own an answer answer, but I still feel like I personally would owe everyone an answer regardless.

Exactly, I 100% agree with you. I feel like what goes around comes around so if you're not being honest up front then someone's gonna do it to you and it's gonna be 10 times worse. So, you know, knock on wood, just you gotta be a nice person all the way through.

Yeah, I definitely think the kindness we put out into the world is going to come back to us in one way or another. So yeah, just stay nice.

Oh wow, that's interesting. Thank you for sharing your perspective. For me, I feel like I have to give them an answer. So I'll send the text, but I'll block them after so I don't see the reply if that makes sense.

Yeah, I see where you're coming from because you don't want to waste any more time or energy So yeah, I agree with you to an extent. I personally feel like I'll just send them a message and then block them after so I don't see their reply.

Yeah, I'm also not a fan of it and I'm also very straightforward like I have no problem telling somebody why things are bound to end and Yeah, I'm not gonna waste anyone's time or energy and I rather just walk out and be done So I'll send a message and then block them after.

See that's interesting that you brought up it being like the way you guys broke up because I have heard that so many times where the relationship ended because somebody ghosted like they didn't get the closure that they needed

I agree completely. I think it's just so cruel to leave somebody like that. And I get that people do mean things, but that doesn't mean you have to stoop down to their level, you know? So yeah, 100% agree with you.

Somebody else brought that up as well, along with the word creepy. I feel like if people are feeling unsafe, then I understand where you're coming from. For me, I just feel like I gotta be more mindful of how I'm moving forward.

Yeah, I see where you're coming from. That's what a bunch of other people were saying on this thread. If they're just like harming you physically or mentally, then yeah, you don't owe anyone an answer. For me though, I just feel like I have to clarify things for my own sanity, you know?

Exactly, that's what I was trying to say in like my original post. It's because I feel like you're just messing with people and I understand that some people do others dirty but we don't have to stoop down to that level you know?