I totally respect where you're coming from. It's actually interesting that you're speaking up for this as a guy because most of the time when I hear about ghosting stories, it's always from a woman. So yeah, I really appreciate you putting in your two cents about this.

I totally agree too and I'm glad that Darkle here spoke up about it because there are exceptions to everything.

I came to the comments to say this exact same thing. It's all about like are you doing it to protect yourself or are you doing it to like get back at somebody because the second one would not be healthy.

Exactly, and going in further on the protecting yourself part, some people are doing it because they were physically or mentally harmed, and honestly with that I believe you do not owe anyone an answer, but there are some people who choose not to commit more time to this percent.

I really appreciate how you brought up how some people will not take no for an answer. They will not accept it and that's really scary and like knock on wood. I just want everyone here here to be healthy and happy regardless of how they move forward.

I agree with you thank you said if they're just creeps and they take no for an answer then yes I am just ghosting they don't understand and then but if they're not then I think they should let them know

Exactly, that's what I was telling a bunch of my friends because when you just ghost, I always say what goes around comes around. So I personally like to send a message, let them know it's not going to work out and wish them the best. And if it was for a bad reason, I block them after so I don't see their reply.

See that's why I don't ghost people because whether it's for a job or you know dealing with a friendship or or even someone I'm in a potential relationship with, I just can't cut it cool, turkey like that. like I have to explain.

I'm right there with you. That's why it's exactly my reason of having this post because I feel like not enough people just talk things out They just ghost and it's a big pet peeve of mine when people ghost like just talk to people communicate

Exactly telling the truth because yes the truth hurts, but it's better to know now than later on You know what I mean? Like just communicate. I feel communication is key

Also, I'm curious to hear why does your friend think it's okay to do?

I really love how you brought in job applications and even you know rental applications You know I've known people that haven't gotten ghosted in all aspects of life and I feel like it's never okay because what goes around comes around So that's just like my belief system. I'm spiritual so that explains it.

So where my friend was coming from was that not everyone is entitled to you, like access is a privilege, which I do understand, but I feel like you gotta let them know why they can't have access. I think that's important.

Okay, that's interesting how you brought up a character. So it just goes to show whether it's TV or real life, like ghosting's bound to happen.

Yeah, I see where you're coming from because if someone's threatening your physical or mental health, then of course you don't own an answer. But if you're just ghosting someone that you were talking to for quite a while, then yeah, I feel like an explanation is needed.

Yeah, I agree. Somebody else was mentioning that if they're being creepy, then yeah, you have the right to ghost them. So I kind of get where you're coming from.