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So a couple years ago on TikTok, I heard the phrase, if he wanted to, he would. And obviously, that went viral. And I see it even on all other platforms like Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, even reaching Pinterest, and now here. So I want to ask you guys, do you believe in that phrase? Because I do, because it just shows that actions speak louder than words. But I do respect other people's opinions, because I have heard of other people saying, well, they could want to, you know. It's just that they may not have the resources to achieve that for you But again, very curious to hear your take.
I very much believe in this phrase. I think it's it's very clear that like if he really wanted to he would and Obviously I want to be mindful that there might be circumstances or Cases that I'm not able to keep in mind right now that could affect it But I do think definitely that in 99% of the times like if he wants to he will do it and he will make it work kind of
And I think likewise for the other gender as well, I don't think it's a gender thing, but yeah, for sure, like, if a person wants to be with another person, like, truly, I don't think there's much that could get in between if you really want it deep down and you want to work on it, then yeah, for sure, you would work for that, for sure.
Yeah, I do agree with you that it's very clear, you know, with your intentions, you know, if they're making the effort because, you know, there's that phrase out there. It's like, it's the thought that counts. It's a very, very similar saying to what I'm bringing up here. So I'm glad you see where I'm coming from that you agree with me.
And also to bring up while we're here, yeah, regardless of gender, I do agree with you that even, you know, women should, you know, make the effort as well because it's not a one-sided thing, you know, it takes two to tango. So again, I was just bringing up that phrase because of things I've heard over and over and over again with it on TikTok.
Well yeah I mean if he wanted to he would let me know if that's pretty clear and it's intention it's just like you know when someone says you know I'm not looking to date that really means I'm not looking to date you so they know if they're telling you something with that
I appreciate you speaking on this and actually I want to quickly reference something you just said regarding the with you part. That time and time again has been silent and so many people wonder why things aren't working out. It's because the with you part is silent. Like they don't realize and read between the lines that they just meant with you. So it's interesting you brought this up because I was actually going to make a post about it tonight. So again, appreciate you.
Exactly, and on that, you know, I always tell people it's the thought that counts, you know? And if someone isn't making the intention to let you know, hey, I'm still into you or I'm interested or whatever, then there's your answer. You know, you don't have to sit here and wonder. It's right there.
Do I believing it will it just depends on what you're talking about sometimes people just can't do things that they can't do so even if you wanted to we could it's a lot of guys are here that want to be great they want to do things but they just came in as a simple reality sometimes