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Okay, picture this. This is a hypothetical situation. You just found out the person you've had a serious relationship with cheated on you. What would you do? For me, I'm very confrontational, but I would make sure I had all the evidence and I would be the type of person to print it all and just leave it in their possession and just walk out. I've seen what I needed to see and I'm over it.
Oh yeah, like I had my heart broken when I was 20 because I left someone who I thought was going to be in my life forever and not over cheating was over something else. but let me tell you, it was so painful.
And that's how you know like when you leave them for a reason it was like I don't know like the higher power tell you like you don't need to be around this person because they're going to do some fucked up shit you not I mean like that heartbreak is just next level I feel you
Oh my goodness, thank you so much for joining the conversation. Um, I'm very spiritual, so to hear you use the phrase higher power means a lot. Like, I don't really know you, but seriously that made my night. Thank you.
Slee, you know, I would put my hands on them and be upset and cuss them out and all that. But now, you know, I know my worth and it's just better to walk away now.
Oh my gosh, I can't begin to tell you how many times with one specific person I had in my past that I would cuss him out. And at one point it just, it got so bad, like with nasty text, so I get it.
I love that you said I would be the type of person to print it all out and just leave it in their possession and just walk out. I mean, I wouldn't even know, but you bet I would be thinking about my room.
Thank you so much. I really appreciate that. No, really, I have to tell you because somebody that I thought was going to be in my life forever, I ended up walking out on because of so many different things, but I've worn that acceptance as peace and peace is your power.
Oh my gosh, I love how straight to the point you were. Yeah, that's what I was saying, silence is golden. You said one more word than I would have. Props to you. Thank you.
I don't know, I feel like in the past I would have been dramatic or started an argument or wanted to know why but I feel like now I would just ghost them, block them on everything, never talk to them again and just leave and they would like question why.
Oh my goodness, I am exactly the same way like when I was younger I used to have these like dramatic outbursts with my ex-partner and and get into these fights. And now I'm just like, I'm not wasting any more time and energy. like bye.
Oh my goodness, I don't know you, but I just want you to know that I'm really sorry that's happening and I really hope that whatever is going on that it all, you know, gets resolved in in the best way. I'm sending you so much love and I hope you have a great upcoming week.
Are you saying the person you've had a serious relationship with or the person you have a serious relationship with? because if it's from the past it gives a shit.
I try not to dwell on the past, so I'm just using this example as if it's happening now. Like, you're with somebody right now, and it's long term, and you found out that this person did you dirty and cheated on you. Like, what would you do? I would love to hear your thoughts.
I wouldn't make them feel like shit and maybe do the same thing if they keep begging to stay with me or something Might as well do the same shit or just leave One of them will make them feel like shit. Yeah, of course.
Oh wow, okay, yeah, because I was gonna say, I don't fight fire with fire exactly, which is why I rather just print out everything and walk out, but definitely make them feel bad because, you know, serious actions have consequences.
I probably would do the same in terms of like having all the evidence but I would confront them and then leave him At this point in my life I'm too grown to be dealing with that so yeah
Exactly. And to add on to that, I always tell people nobody deserves to be cheated on. And, you know, at the end of the day, all you have is yourself. And so it really sucks that we're in a society where people have become disposable of one another.
See as much as I wanna like girl boss and like print it out and make an exit and be like yeah like I'm on to you I know everything you did and stuff I think just completely ghosting and leaving and like packing my shit and taking off is like such a problem
Yeah, that's why I was saying in my voiceover, I rather just print out everything, leave it there, and walk away because silence is golden. And not only that, but you know, it's really important to look out for yourself because at the end day, all you have is you, you know, real talk. There's There's so much peace and acceptance.