Situationships removes the urgency of trying to immediately find what you're looking for but it allows you to stay open right rather than beating yourself up for exploring someone that catches your eye you hold on to that experience for what it is. It also keeps you from staying in not so great situations and you're a lot less likely to force a relationship when it isn't ideal for you And I think situations shifts at time can provide a structure or framework for understanding what you want and what doesn't fit neatly into a box for you. maybe it's not always a waste of time.

I feel like a situation is generally like a relationship without any sort of defined terms and that's fine until one of the parties catches feelings and then they get here now their feelings hurt so as long as a limit to the fine then I can eat whatever it can be

I would say it's fine art but only if both parts are aware that this is an open relationship right because most of the time one of the members one of the partners get disappointed because they think they're doing things seriously have high expectations and then the other person is not on the same page

An interesting take on this, thank you, Irene.

I think in my opinion a situation ship is more beneficial than a relationship like if they both end up ending right because like in a relationship it's all is to chill free to learn what's good and what's bad rain situation you're allergic right and that's why we were about me and my friends I have never been in a relationship I had a proper like deep situation of my friends been released its bloody hell are shit right

I don't know it depends what you're looking for because if I'm looking to marry I'm not gonna date a guy who doesn't see marriage in his future so it's like why would I waste time with one of them by the same time there are people who like don't even think about marriage they're just trying to have fun so it's like they're OK with dating just multiple people

Yes non-situation ships are just as they just get you too attached and then by the time you actually like feel like you're ready to take a relationship the other person never wants to cause like either you don't have the same opinion as them or they don't have the same opinions as you how do you wanna be in the relationship and they don't or they wanna be in a relationship and you know it's it's never never both