How to deal with People Who Always Try to Put You Down #positivevibes #opentalkBeing around negative people is not pleasant. Sometimes, however, we can’t avoid interactions with those who will put us down or look down on us, constantly trying to minimize our accomplishments or undermining our identities. When we can’t really cut contact, for instance, when they are coworkers at an overall good workplace or family members who pop up from time to time.