I'd like to start by saying that this is a very ignorant question. If you want a long-term relationship you can have it with anybody no matter how many children they have or how many people they've had *** with. Very dumb.
Okay, a couple of you guys are just missing the point of the exercise and the pull. There's no third option that I wouldn't choose either one. You have to choose one or the other. That's what I'm going for here. Neither is not a choice.