say you're wrong but if you're dating somebody's baby mother and you're taking care of the kid and you've been there with the kids since they were a child and their father is a deadbeat father who is no longer in their life how are you wrong for taking ownership you literally stepped in the role of a father and you're saying this child is mine now you're not saying that the um child can not be around their father you're just saying you can't be near my family meaning that you can't show up here at my home you can't be demanding

If you want to see your child, that'll be scheduled between you and your mother in a public place. But no, you can't be near my family. I think when people say near family, I don't really think that they know what it means. But even then again, if you're a deadbeat father and you're never in their life, then do you deserve to be around their family? I guess it's a case-by-case basis, but I say no, you're not in the wrong. And everybody who's saying yes, y'all got a lot of babies daddies, and y'all are wrong.

It won't be wrong if I knock you out because let me tell you this though, that's my kid. And I can come in anytime I want to. If she wants some good dick and wants to feel sexy and special, she'll probably kill you on the side. She'll say, oh, go to here and I'm going to come in and do my thing. You know, after that, enjoy my time with the kids and everything.

You are definitely wrong for doing that. As a man who is dating and making a choice to date a woman with kids, the father is always going to be in their life. If anything, you should be encouraging a relationship with their fathers and you being there as a secondary support. But no, don't be over your trauma. It's my family now, *****.