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Hey Chiefs, can't get enough of this post for sure, we talk about men not being emotionally available, people not being emotionally available, my parents boy, whoo that motherfucking generation boy, and now everybody should be talking and yelling, man these motherfuckers is traumatized, it's trauma, but yeah look at us continue to unfold and unravel while we are the way that we are.
I'm from a Nigerian household and my dad was about that life and It's 2023 and I still see him beating my kids if they fucked up and I think If he didn't pass away That's probably the way it went and I used to have dreams of him doing the same beating my kids when they fucked up
Hey, please, please, big share this. I might play this in the show, for sure. It's a good, great conversation to be had about this. Shout out to Cheesecake.
Aye yo, that's just big fucking facts, like, you know what I'm saying, like, are we traumatized? Our parents can sit here and play that role like I never did anything. Get the fuck, we are fucked up right now because y'all, thank you.
Man, the original gaslighters, our parents, making us think some stuff didn't happen when it did happen, you know, like, man, that's why some of us grew up and continued to get abused because we thought gaslighting was a normal thing.
Okay, say that the people that got just the flip-flops Blessings should anything that was available to throw at my ass or to hit my ass with Cable cords extension cords belts paint paddles. Yeah all type of shit
Facts. But now when I think about it, my daddy was the only one that made an auto finder book feel like a damn belt. So I can imagine if he had a flip flop. Girl, maybe I can relate then.
Yeah, my momma was definitely the pick up anything one, like anything, anything, I'm talking hangers, just like you said, extension cords, phone cords, any god damn, cake spoons, any god damn thing that was around, that's my momma for sure.
I swear to y'all, I just had this conversation with my mom a week ago She talking about, oh no I never did any of that stuff, I was good to you, I was always there, I always showed you love I always let you do whatever you wanted, no the fuck you didn't, and no the fuck you weren't Who the fuck are you thinking you raised, cause the motherfucker obviously wasn't me Cause that shit never happened
Hell yeah, that's that delusion of the world they be living in. They done created this narrative that just because they done forgot about it, you supposed to as well. And so they can create a new ideation of how they treated you.