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So this girl and her boyfriend have been dating for quite a while and over time he's given her some gifts and turns out those are actually gifts that he gave his ex-girlfriend and in the breakup he got them back. So instead of buying new gifts he just basically re-gifted his current girlfriend what he gave his ex-girlfriend. Now if you were in her shoes would you be okay with having what he already gave his ex-girlfriend or would you want it out of sight out of mind and get something completely new and different? Because I'm telling you right now if I found out my boyfriend was gifting me things that he meant to give to someone else I would make him take it back. He can donate it to a local women's shelter or give it away to a friend of a friend just something where it's not going to be around me and I much rather him you know get something that's more aligned to who I am as a person and it also makes me wonder like how he's been sliding throughout this whole relationship. Like it makes me think of other elements of the relationship if that makes sense. So that's where my mind is going with this. I'm curious to hear your perspective.
to be honest i would just want it going like i would want it going like why for one it's like why do you still have things that you gave your ex that should have been gone for two it's just like that it's plain disrespectful i feel like that's where i'm gonna leave it but yeah
yes heavy on the plain disrespect because i feel like to just give me something that you put so much thought and consideration for someone else like it feels icky to me like it's just odd like it's different if it was like his grandma's or his mother's like like something that has been passed down from generations like that i don't mind keeping around but if it was for his ex-girlfriend oh hell no nope