To be honest, you're just spoilt, because if they have money, yeah, and they give it to their family first, that's what they should do instead of giving it to their girlfriend. So I suggest you shut your mouth, because at the end of the day, you don't know what you're talking about, because you're American.

So, my biggest red flag ever is that he could be like the nicest and kindest person you've ever met when he's not around his friends, but then when he's around his little friend group, he's the most rudest, judgmental, sexist, just worst person you could ever be around.

My red flag is that I've had some experience where they just say I'm their girlfriend and I didn't agree to it.