okay i know this is gonna get really messy but i want to hear your honest perspective on this what would you do if your partner was talking to their ex on social media like you didn't know about it beforehand and you found out that they're dming each other on instagram or sending each other messages on tiktok or sending snaps on snapchat like how would you handle that like how would you like deal with it because for me personally i would obviously confront my partner and be like okay well what's going on because obviously like i can't see those messages like i don't know if things have already been deleted like what's the context you know and i feel like it would really question like whether or not i trust him and also like especially if like the ex is also in a relationship that's just mad disrespectful regardless but still like come on like i feel like it's just not needed unless there's like a reason they're talking to each other like whether they share a kid or i don't know like if there's something much more serious and complex i would understand but if it's just like an ex from a past that you know they don't really have any connection to other than social media i would just ask them to like unfollow them or block them because it's just like that's just way too unnecessary especially in this day and age like people get the wrong idea so fast but i don't know that's just me i'm not jealous but that's just where i come from because it's all about respect at the end of the day so yeah that's my take i want to hear yours

What would I do if my partner is talking to their ex? As long as I can do it too, I am fine with it. And I'm going to admit that, as long as I can do it too, without you being jealous or you being angry. Because the way that I see this is, if you're doing something and I can't do the same thing too, then you're wrong.

I mean, you are absolutely right. It does. In a relationship, it's 100% trust. You have to trust one another. But at the same time, if you've seen your ex, if you've seen your husband or boyfriend talking to their ex literally all the time, yeah, that would be a problem. I mean, if they're talking to them occasionally, that shouldn't be a big deal. But if they're