If we are, or if a person is in a better position that they are in now than they were in the past, then that's kind of how you measure yourself and where you're going and how you're moving forward is looking at where you came from to now.

Absolutely, absolutely Robin. It's the life lesson that helps define you, not the life sentence. So definitely that is crucial is what you've learned from that, that can help define you, but it's not a life sentence, a life lesson.