hi um hi everyone I think I'm basically about to lose my boyfriend after like three years of dating we've been fine and stuff but everything changed ever since I moved to his place and now I suspected that he'd been cheating on me but he says he's not his classmate girl classmates call him babe and he doesn't want me to go through his phone which I don't normally do, I do it when he gives me the permission to do so but right now I think I'm about to lose him for good because I asked him if he wanted to share something about our friendship and he got really really defensive and I'm not really ready to lose him over that so yeah that's just the oh that's three years down the drain so far, I'll see if anything improves or whatever

Hey, I'm gonna tell you this right here, right goddamn now. Three years, it ain't three years I got the goddamn, it ain't three years down the goddamn drain. Now when you go to school, and you leave all them years behind you, that ain't go all down the goddamn drain now, did it? It's time for you to move on, that's all that is, that's all that means. Three years down the goddamn drain, girl, you got plenty of years ahead of you. Let's get it, let's get it.

Oh man, sorry to hear about that. These type of situations are never good. They never feel good. It's just like, man, you put your trust in someone and then, you know, they ruin it.

Girl, I think that you should start detaching yourself before anything bad happens so you're not so hurt when something does happen, like he breaks up with you or something, but I think you should go through his phone, find out whatever you need to find out, and if he says, oh, you lost my trust, you went through my phone, well, he already lost your trust by doing all that shit, so, and don't be jealous about it.

Price is Right losing tone.

I'm sorry to hear that, I know, but I really think it's time you just get over him. I know it can be really hard and frustrating, but sometimes it's just the best thing to do, and maybe find someone else who actually will give a shit about you and not replace you.

Hey, the moment he didn't want you to look through his phone? No, that's that's just a dead giveaway. You gotta let him go, man. I'm sorry.

Trust your instincts, Gura. Trust them. Because nine times out of ten, your instincts are always right. If you feel something's wrong, it usually is. Trust me, I've had experienced Gurus cheat on me. And I've had the feeling that they have. And guess what? It happened. Always trust your instincts.

Girl, I think you just should, like, break up with him already. And if you did, good for you. Good for you. But, like, yeah, just break up.