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How do you handle friends who stopped talking to you in the case of, for example, they got in a relationship and went MIA, or, you know, they're not really being around as much as they used to, or they're straight up not communicating at all? Like, how do you handle that? Like, would you call them up and try to meet up and see, like, what's going on? Or would you let things go and see how it plays out? I'm just curious, because for me personally, like, I have to get to the bottom of it. Like, I need to resolve it. So I would do my best to reach out and try to meet up for coffee or a shopping trip or just something where it's a much more casual setting and just hearing them out. Because maybe, you know, you did something that made them upset and they decided not to tell you what it was. And it's a good chance to clear the air. But if they're not willing to, then, yeah, it's just best to move on. Let me know where you stand.
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me personally i just go with the flow if you stop talking to me i'm not talking to you either i'm not gonna make an effort because i don't care like i don't care you my best friend in the whole world and i'll care but i won't care enough to put effort in because if you just want to leave me like that then enjoy that shit enjoy that i hope he cheats
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I don't know what type of answer to give because I'm still dealing with that situation, you know um I have to talk to friends in order for them to talk to me or I haven't talked to them in a while because they're either in relationships or they have their own life to You know take care of which I respect you know these people that I talked to for years has made an impact in my life, so I can't just like Ghost them just because they don't talk to me, you know
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First of all, I just want to say I'm really sorry you're dealing with this right now, and I hope you're okay but it can definitely be frustrating or annoying or upsetting that People are not reaching out to you or you know not wanting to continue the friendship your feelings are very valid and again I hope you're okay
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Thank you, I appreciate it. Um, but yeah, I'm okay. I'm okay. It is pretty annoying though Not talking to your friends like you once were in the very beginning But you know, I've gotten used to it. I respect their their space and their privacy if they need it I'm not going to be that type of person to get mad at them for living their own lives because I know I'm not going To be a part of their lives a hundred percent, you know
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For me, personally, if somebody stops talking to me, it's a good sign. It's a good sign for me to conserve my energy and not waste it on that person. And just move on with somebody better, right? Like who deserves my time and energy. Because, you know, it's a good sign for me. I mean, that's all I can say. If somebody stops talking to me...
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Honestly, I've had multiple friends who basically went MIA because they got a boyfriend or a girlfriend and they didn't want to do anything with me. So, I just let it go. I'm not going to force them to talk to me or whatever. I understand that their number one priority is whoever their partner is and I don't mean anything to them.
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Okay, I feel like I have to respond to your answer because first of all I'm really sorry that your friends made you feel like that you don't mean anything to them because I feel like for anyone to do that to a human is just cruel and You know what people like that is this is advice I'm taking for myself is like they're not worth it like real friends will stick around no matter what their relationship status is So again, so sorry this happened to you
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