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I started doing shit that made me happy, like regardless of what it was that I wanted to do only because I felt good about it and passionate about it, I did it. And that's the key, you gotta do what makes you happy.
I started to reevaluate who I was giving my attention to and how much of my attention was I giving it to because most times when I'm on rock bottom there's nobody there with me.
Yes, sister. Hashtags, facts. Because I found out my people that I was hanging around, they were jealous, envy, and didn't give two shits about my opinions. So, that was a good notion for me to walk out.
When I hit rock bottom, that is the last level that I can hit. There's no, there's not another level deeper than rock bottom. So I have so much space to grow from.
Loving yourself was the hardest, loving myself was the hardest thing ever. Because I didn't know who I was. I was everybody else's person except for me. So yeah, I had to love myself, look myself in the eye.
You'd be surprised how many times you hit rock bottom and the people that never came to your rescue Will come to your rescue when you are on top again It's up to you to use the sermon on who's there for you
It's really up to you to use discernment of who's there for you and who's not there for you. To building healthy boundaries, being able to say no, being able to do stuff for you first.
You also have to train yourself. Your brain is a muscle. If you don't use it, it'll never work. You gotta train your mind into thinking of living, not just surviving or existing.
A snake is a snake. So when he shed his skin, he's still a snake. And that's what I had. I had a lot of snakes trying to be my friends and help me get hit bottom. So I changed that.
I was reborn by the glory and the grace of God and Jesus. I am nothing, wouldn't be able to do nothing without them. God is everything, God does everything. God is amazing, God is great.
After staring at the wall long enough, I guess, I decided that I needed to do something. So, realizing that life is a process, I needed to pick myself up in order to get up and go. So, I did that first.
I think that first step is maybe the hardest, you know, just to get started because you want to put, you want to stop all the time and you do sometimes, but you got to keep on picking yourself up and just going through the day.
Once you manage to do something positive and Even no matter how small you start to build so you do with one positive thing in your care Now you did you feel a little good now do another one and another and another?
I typically think you know building that throughout one week if you can try it for one week try hard to do some things positive things and get some momentum going then you can look back and say okay it's a week now I can do something now I'm good back