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To the people that are in the same boat that I am about being single most of your life, how do you feel about that? In my circumstance before I was 21 I was single all my life until 21.
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I am super happy being single. I've been single for seven years and you know what people are so toxic these days. I'm just not here for it. I have peace in my life and I am happy. So happy.
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Kudos to you with peace in your life. I think that is just fantastic. I would love to get to that point sometime in my singleness, but I'm just super duper frustrated, but I'ma try.
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So to piggyback what I was saying, I was single all my life until 21 to 22, and then after 22 been single all my life and I'm 36 now still single and I had a 10 year old son who was
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I had a tarot reader say to me, in your past life you have been in nothing but relationships all your life. Just nothing but relationships. So now my current life is completely opposite of that.
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I'ma be honest, I hate dating, I hate the dating process, I hate it, hate it, hate it. I don't like dating websites, I like meeting people organically. I was dating somebody just recently and that went-
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And, um, I don't want to say I'm becoming bitter, I'm just frustrated, but I just have to like acknowledge and move on, which I'm doing.
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Totally venting right now, but I just don't care. But ladies that are in my situation, that have just been single all of your life, please let me know how you feel, how you cope.
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I've been single for quite a while. Throughout grade school never had like boyfriends, girlfriends, whatever. Never had them. But I always had crushes.
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my life being single and then at some point I realized that I was being selfish to the future me and I realized that my goal was to reproduce myself via my children so that I can live and last forever
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Yeah, I used to be single for a long time and I loved it. I ain't even gonna hold you. I enjoy my singleness. I enjoy spending time with me. I take myself out to dinner, relax, go to the movies and stuff. It's just peaceful, very peaceful.
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Yeah, in my singleness I have done a lot of that. I love taking myself out. I love, I used to love going to the movies but I'm not big on it anymore but I still like it. I guess it depends on what's out.
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I think of it for me more now is just finding the peace in being single because I feel like I do single very very well but I think for me and I'm just speaking for myself since it's just been so long it just feels like well
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And then also I watch a lot of financial podcasts and they always talk about maximizing your singleness and I'm not technically doing that yet. So I guess that's the next step.
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The great thing about life I learned is love yourself first, then the people who love yourself first, they will come the right way. I will think for 23 years.
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It is quite peaceful, but I don't think that that's what we were meant to be, particularly in the senior years. You're going to want to be able to spend that time with somebody and have someone there for you.
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I'm single for 25 years. Sometimes I think I aced my singleness and sometimes most so many times I just think I failed completely.
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Some people they handle their thinginess so naturally, so well. I just admire them.
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I know people are toxic these days but so many times I still want to go out just meet people I know they are toxic
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This to me is like moth to the flame. This is definitely not good. I've been wasting so many of my time on this.
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The best way to deal with it if you want to get in a relationship is not what other people like just focus on yourself, make yourself into the best date possible and it will work.
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I was in a long-term relationship when I was very young and since then nothing I think I am better by myself.
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