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I'm just hella open at times and sometimes I just don't care and sometimes I just want to vent and sometimes Yeah, if I feel comfortable around the person the person I get like a genuine vibe But sometimes I don't even know people and I'm just telling them stuff, but that's not with everyone though, but it just
I'll say when someone comes across very genuine, gives me a genuine loving vibe, and I feel very comfortable, then I have no problems opening up, but then sometimes I can just be an open book too.
I think this also has a lot to do with self-awareness. I think if you're very self-aware of who you are, you kind of pretty much don't have problems opening up to people, but then it really depends on the purpose because some- I mean the person because some people are very selective of who they give out their information to which is very- which is-
Because you're feeling their energy you feel their wavelength is similar to yours and Oftentimes is because you are recognizing another neurodivergent person neurotypical people don't open up like that
emotionally and mentally invested in that person so I can talk to you about this shit and never see you again but also the same release of talking to a therapist but without the fear associated with it.
For me, I think it's just easier to open up to somebody that I don't know, especially if they have some good energy, positive vibes, definitely can hold a conversation. I like somebody that can pick my brain sometimes.
to somebody that you don't know and they give you like a negative reaction, then you can just easily forget about them or ghost them, block them, move on. But if it's somebody that you care about, it definitely matters more about what they think.
Because you don't care, you don't know that person. They hold no significant value in your life, so their opinion, quite honestly, is irrelevant. So you remove the fear element, and when you remove that, you speak freely.
You know, I would say this is some kind of vibe we feel when we meet for the first time. We talk to them, we listen to their words, we feel some deep connection and easily we open our eyes.
So they will show some attractive personality to you and we just open up to them so easily. So sometimes people take advantage of that and sometimes people are wise.